The “morning of” getting-ready photos with the guys is the groom’s time to shine—think of it as the pregame to one of the best parties of your life! These photos aren’t just about fixing your tie or lining up with the boys for a serious shot; they’re about capturing all the laughs, nerves, and inside jokes you’ve built up with your mates over the years. So, here’s what to know to keep it laid-back, fun, and unforgettable.

Timing Is Everything

First up: timing. Have a chat with your photographer to make sure they’re there a couple of hours before you have to be at the ceremony. You’ll want a little cushion of time to ease into the morning without rushing. The goal is to capture those little moments: a final cheers, maybe a few goofy poses, and, of course, the finishing touches—like adjusting cufflinks or buttoning up jackets.

Pick a space with some good lighting—big windows and natural light are best. A clean space keeps the focus on you and the crew, not on that rogue sock or half-eaten breakfast sandwich in the corner. Plus, a tidy space looks more polished and lets everyone focus on having a good time.

Highlight the Details

Remember to get those details in order. Your accessories—watches, cufflinks, maybe even a cool pair of socks—these little things make for fun photos. Lay them out so the photographer can capture those slick close-ups. If you’ve got any fun or quirky gifts for your groomsmen, now’s the time to bring those out. Matching flasks, anyone?

Make sure to relax and just be yourself. You’re with your best mates, so let the natural banter and humour come out. Tell a funny story, crack a joke—whatever makes you feel like you. These real moments, where you’re laughing or maybe even having a sentimental moment with your crew, will turn into the shots that everyone remembers. No need to force a smile; just be in the moment.

Fun Poses and Candid Shots

And, of course, no getting-ready session with the boys is complete without a toast. Grab a glass of whiskey, a beer, or even just a coffee if you’re saving it for later, and do a quick cheers. This isn’t about some epic speech; it’s just a little “here we go” moment with your crew.
 
Have a few ideas up your sleeve for fun photos? Go for it! Want to get that James Bond shot with jackets over shoulders? Or a goofy line-up down the hall? This is your time to let the personality fly. A little spontaneity with the guys goes a long way, and these moments capture the spirit of the day better than anything planned.
 
So, kick back and let loose. This is your morning to hang with your best friends before saying, “I do.” These photos are little time capsules of the morning you left your bachelor days behind with the people who’ve been there from day one. Embrace the moment, live it up, and get ready to make some unforgettable memories.
 

Photographer: Erica Jane Photography
@ericajanephotographer
www.ericajane.co.nz