So, the wedding is over, the confetti has settled, and now there’s a new question on your mind: should you change your name? In New Zealand, there’s no legal requirement to do so. It’s completely your choice, which is freeing but also a little confusing.
Do I have to change my name?
Nope, not at all. New Zealand law leaves it up to you. Some people keep their maiden name, especially if they’ve built a career or personal identity around it. Others take their partner’s surname as a symbol of unity. Then there are creative options like hyphenating both names (Smith-Jones), joining them into one double-barrelled surname (SmithJones), or even starting fresh with something entirely new. The right choice is simply the one that feels most like you.
If you do decide to change your name, the process is pretty straightforward. Most organisations will accept your marriage certificate as proof. Banks, IRD, NZTA (for your driver’s license), and even utility companies usually just need to see it. A good tip is to order certified copies of your marriage certificate, so you’re not just sending off your only original.
Updating your passport is another step. If you were married in New Zealand, simply provide your marriage certificate. Married overseas? You’ll need to fill out a form along with your certificate. Each bank and provider has slightly different rules, so it’s worth giving them a call before you head in.
What if I don’t change my name?
That’s completely fine too. Plenty of people keep their maiden name for professional or personal reasons. Others like to use both, keeping one for work and the other for family life. There’s no wrong way to go about it.
A few extra things to know
Updating the electoral roll is easy with your RealMe login.
Changing your driver’s license comes with a small fee.
If you’re planning to buy a new home, it can be simpler to update your name on the house title at that stage.
At the end of the day, it’s your name and your choice. Talk it through with your partner, think about what feels comfortable, and remember whatever you decide should reflect you. After all, marriage is about celebrating a new chapter, and your name is just one part of that story.
