Congratulations, you’re engaged! Now what?
Author: Jamie Quinn
- By Jamie Quinn
While you’re still riding the high of having just said “yes!”, it’s a good idea to start thinking about what comes next. Planning a wedding can be both exhilarating and a tad overwhelming, but don’t worry, we’ve got your next steps sorted.
First thing’s first, share the good news! Before diving head first into the nitty gritty, enjoy this part by sharing the exciting news with family and friends. Whether it’s a video call, or you surprise them with a dinner party announcement, bask in the simplicity of this moment.
Remember to take it slow. The temptation to jump right into planning mode is real, take a moment to savour your engagement. This is a special time for you and your partner to soak in the love without the pressures of wedding prep. Enjoy date nights, lazy Sundays, and spontaneous adventures. It’s all part of the journey.
Once you’re ready to start thinking about details, the first thing is to set a budget. Weddings get pricey very quickly, so it’s essential to discuss your budget early on. Sit down with your partner and talk about how much you’re willing to spend on your big day. Having a set budget will make it much easier to make informed decisions as you plan.
Naturally, the budget will determine the overall vision you have for your wedding. Discuss what your dream wedding will look like, share your visions and ideas and get a sense of each other’s preferences. From the size of the guest list to the location, theme, and style, it’s important to make sure your expectations align.
When it comes to ideas and inspiration, the wedding industry is over saturated with content. All the trends can be overwhelming and hard to keep track of, this is where a Pinterest board can be your best friend! Create a dedicated wedding board, with subcategories, to keep all your favourite ideas in one spot. Pinterest is fantastic for narrowing down your vision and providing sneaky tips and tricks to make planning easier. For more inspiration, we love exploring wedding blogs, magazines, and social media.
Organisation is key when it comes to planning a wedding. As soon as you have your vision and budget sorted, start researching! From your venue to photographer, caterer, and everything in between, it’s vital you start this process knowledgeable and with an idea of what to expect from vendors.
Probably one the most significant steps after getting engaged is setting your wedding date. You date will depend on a multitude of factors like venue availability, the season, and engagement length. It’s important to think carefully about your wedding date- it will affect more than just your future anniversary, it will also determine pricing and booking availability for various vendors. Some venues offer cheaper packages in the off-season, while florists will only be able to provide certain flowers at certain times of the year.
Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks to family and friends who offer their help. Planning a wedding is a big job and can be stressful. Having a solid support system can make the process more enjoyable and more fun! While it all seems like a huge task right now, try to enjoy the process and remember to keep you and your partner at the forefront of every decision you make together.
Photo by: Midge Edine Photography
While you’re still riding the high of having just said “yes!”, it’s a good idea to start thinking about what comes next. Planning a wedding can be both exhilarating and a tad overwhelming, but don’t worry, we’ve got your next steps sorted.
First thing’s first, share the good news! Before diving head first into the nitty gritty, enjoy this part by sharing the exciting news with family and friends. Whether it’s a video call, or you surprise them with a dinner party announcement, bask in the simplicity of this moment.
Remember to take it slow. The temptation to jump right into planning mode is real, take a moment to savour your engagement. This is a special time for you and your partner to soak in the love without the pressures of wedding prep. Enjoy date nights, lazy Sundays, and spontaneous adventures. It’s all part of the journey.
Once you’re ready to start thinking about details, the first thing is to set a budget. Weddings get pricey very quickly, so it’s essential to discuss your budget early on. Sit down with your partner and talk about how much you’re willing to spend on your big day. Having a set budget will make it much easier to make informed decisions as you plan.
Naturally, the budget will determine the overall vision you have for your wedding. Discuss what your dream wedding will look like, share your visions and ideas and get a sense of each other’s preferences. From the size of the guest list to the location, theme, and style, it’s important to make sure your expectations align.
When it comes to ideas and inspiration, the wedding industry is over saturated with content. All the trends can be overwhelming and hard to keep track of, this is where a Pinterest board can be your best friend! Create a dedicated wedding board, with subcategories, to keep all your favourite ideas in one spot. Pinterest is fantastic for narrowing down your vision and providing sneaky tips and tricks to make planning easier. For more inspiration, we love exploring wedding blogs, magazines, and social media.
Organisation is key when it comes to planning a wedding. As soon as you have your vision and budget sorted, start researching! From your venue to photographer, caterer, and everything in between, it’s vital you start this process knowledgeable and with an idea of what to expect from vendors.
Probably one the most significant steps after getting engaged is setting your wedding date. You date will depend on a multitude of factors like venue availability, the season, and engagement length. It’s important to think carefully about your wedding date- it will affect more than just your future anniversary, it will also determine pricing and booking availability for various vendors. Some venues offer cheaper packages in the off-season, while florists will only be able to provide certain flowers at certain times of the year.
Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks to family and friends who offer their help. Planning a wedding is a big job and can be stressful. Having a solid support system can make the process more enjoyable and more fun! While it all seems like a huge task right now, try to enjoy the process and remember to keep you and your partner at the forefront of every decision you make together.
Photo by: Midge Edine Photography
