Whimsy is back

By Ben O'Connell

Weddings spent a good few years playing it safe. Neutral palettes, restrained styling, everything matched and muted and tasteful in the way quiet luxury demanded.

2026 has had enough of that. Call it whimsy, call it romantic maximalism, couples are leaning back into colour, texture and joyful excess in a way weddings haven’t seen for some time.

This look favours bright, unexpected colour combinations. Lavender sitting next to marigold. Peach layered with blue. Mixed table settings rather than matching sets. String lights everywhere. A backyard or garden setting that feels relaxed rather than formal.

The whole style is built on the idea that a wedding should feel joyful and personal rather than polished into one single cohesive aesthetic, and couples are happy to mix vintage plates, disco balls and candlelight in the same room without apology.

That playful instinct hasn’t stayed confined to the decor either. Wedding cakes are getting an especially fun upgrade this year, with sculptural, slightly surreal designs replacing the classic stacked tier as the default choice.

A cake shaped like a flower pot. Kitsch, nostalgic detailing that makes people smile before they’ve even had a slice. Bouquets are moving in the same direction, away from tightly structured arrangements and toward beaded, embroidered or texture-driven designs that double as a personal keepsake rather than just a floral statement.

Florals more broadly are loosening up too. Meadowcore is the name doing the rounds for it, soft and organic arrangements with visible movement, twisted stems, a gathered rather than arranged feel. It’s a deliberate move away from the tightly structured, symmetrical florals that dominated in previous years.

What’s underneath all of it is a real shift in what couples are actually optimising for. Fewer are chasing one single, magazine-perfect look. More are building their day around personality instead, inside jokes, favourite colours, a shared love of something a little silly, and trusting that the joy comes through more than the polish does.

For any couple nervous about getting it wrong, that’s the reassuring part of this year’s whimsy trend. There isn’t really a wrong version of it. If it makes you laugh, or feels distinctly like the two of you, it belongs at your wedding.

Whimsy is back

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